Tuesday, January 22, 2008

The Business of Being Born!

It's coming!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This movie is a must see. Check out their website to see if it is playing near you. It will also be released directly to dvd through netflix so go add it! Their release date shows Feb 12 but I heard they announced at their Hollywood premier that they were pushing back the release date!

The Utah Birth Network is proud to present a special screening of


Friday February 8
Displays featuring local mother-friendly organizations and The Shape of a Mother open at 5pm
Movie begins at 6pm
Discussion panel to follow movie

Located at Weber State University (Rm 110)
Davis Campus
2750 N. University Park Blvd.
Layton, Utah

Seating is limited!
Contact Sara Forsberg to purchase tickets
801-643-2633 or sara@utahbirth.net
or send payment by paypal to payment@utahbirth.net
$10 pre-purchase
$15 at the door
$40 Utah Birth Network membership + 2 tickets
Free at the door to WSU Wildcard holders

Birth: it’s a miracle. A rite of passage. A natural part of life. But more than anything, birth is a business. Compelled to find answers after a disappointing birth experience with her first child, actress Ricki Lake recruits filmmaker Abby Epstein to examine and question the way American women have babies.

The film interlaces intimate birth stories with surprising historical, political and scientific insights and shocking statistics about the current maternity care system. When director Epstein discovers she is pregnant during the making of the film, the journey becomes even more personal.

Should most births be viewed as a natural life process, or should every delivery be treated as a potentially catastrophic medical emergency?

Visit www.thebusinessofbeingborn.com for more information

I am so excited for this movie. I've been really busy getting this organized for this but I have a few blogs that I really want to post. I hope to get to them in the next few days. Until then, go to the Business of Being Born website and check out the trailer!

Wednesday, January 09, 2008

Waterbirth International

Waterbirth International is having a crisis and you can help. Visit their page to donate.

They had their first ever Gentle Birth World Congress this past year. It was extremely successful but apparently drained most of their resources. They are on the verge of closing! They need to raise money to keep functioning. I hope they are able to get what they need and continue on!

Waterbirth Int. is such a wonderful organization. They have so many resources available to help women and their families. I was contacted a couple of years ago by a woman who was working with them to have a waterbirth at one of our local hospitals. The hospitals here are largely unsupportive of waterbirth, even to the point of picking women up out of the tubs while the women are trying to push their babies out.

Our local midwifery organization had a waterbirth conference and Barbara Harper and Cornelia Ennings were both able to come and speak. I spent a couple quiet hours with Barbara as we discussed birth and our visions for maternity care in the United States. She is a wonderful lovely woman and I hope they are able to raise enough money to stay open so she can continue with her vision.

Lately I have been so discouraged about the conveyor belt course of birth in this country. I don't understand why consumers don't protect themselves. Why don't people take responsibility for their bodies, for understanding how things work and why they do this? Why don't people CHOOSE? This isn't like buying a can of soda or picking out a movie. This costs thousands of dollars and affects the rest of your life - physically and mentally. Not only will it touch your life, but the choices a woman makes about what is done to her or for her are going to affect her baby's life - forever. It seems like this should matter more. We should pick only those who are deserving to attend us. We put far too much trust in something that is broken, and not enough trust in something inherently normal.

Friday, December 28, 2007

Birth goals

With the new year on the horizon I've been thinking about goal setting. I recently got something in the mail from someone I've worked with that had some ideas about resolutions and new beginnings. I was going over some of these things and wanted to apply them to birth. I've made a handout that I'm going to share with my clients when we go over "birth plans". Here are some of the details from the handout. One of my goals for this year is to post more regularly in this blog and keep it birth related. We'll see!

1 - Choose your goal
Specifically ask yourself, what is it that I want? Write it down!

2- What will make attaining this easier?
Attending a childbirth class, hiring a doula, planning a homebirth, attending ICAN, LLL or other supportive meetings, choosing a supportive doctor or midwife.

3- What's my motivation?
Why is this type of birth important to you? What are your beliefs about birth?

4- Obstacles and solutions.
Write out your obstacles that hinder your goals and possible solutions to help you overcome these obstacles.

5- What's my roadmap to success?
Create a plan. Figure out what you need to help you achieve your goal - then do it!

6- My moral support
List the people you can rely on who will truly be supportive of what you need. People can have specific roles, or just be there to count on for positive conversation, meals, babysitting, or labor support.

7- Visualize
Imagine yourself achieving your goal. Where are you? How are you feeling? Who is with you? What is going on around you?

8- My slogan
Think positive! Use affirmations such as, "my body was created to do this", "I am beautiful and healthy", and "I can do this!".

I have not been productive at all today so my brain feels like mush. I've been trying to clean out closets but my sweet little guy is on a nursing kick. It's great because I can sit and chill (and surf the net!) but I really want to get some stuff done! To everything there is a season. The closets will wait and I'll enjoy this time!

Thursday, December 20, 2007

the one with breasts

So I was reading a thing about weaning your baby and this lady said she really wanted her breasts back and her husband really wanted them back. I have nursed every day for the past 5 years and 3 months except for a few weeks during one pregnancy. I do not like nursing during pregnancy very much. But we did it and it was ok and it made everyone happier in the end. I like breasts though. They're great. And my nurslings like my breasts. They both get incredibly excited when they see them. My husband - I'm sure he'd say he likes them too, except that the moment he hears the word "breasts" he probably stops thinking a little bit. (I don't know if he reads this so I can probably make fun of him all I want. If he gets mad I can show him the breasts right?)

I read another article, this time in Newsweek, about "mommy makeovers". You know, the plastic surgery we get after we have kids so we don't look like we had kids? I'm lazy so I'm not going to go get the magazine and quote but this lady said something great about how- hey! we're not 20 anymore and we had kids! What's so wrong with looking like that? Plenty I guess. And then someone ordered me a subscription to Glamour in my maiden name and it's being sent to my parents. They have implant ads, much like pharmaceutical ads. The back page of the add lists all the adverse reactions and such and I had no idea that they were so problematic. In the first 7 years or something there's around a 50% chance of needing them replaced. And it said in there that an augmentation is not a one time surgery, that you should expect to do it multiple times in your life. And doesn't it hurt? Because that would be the biggest turn off for me. I used to be not entirely happy with my body, mostly because of crap like that. We can doctor and photoshop everyone and then plaster it all over and say THIS is beautiful when nobody really looks like that. I just want everyone to feel beautiful. My friend Bonnie has a website called The Shape of a Mother that I just love. It's a service to women everywhere.

But back to my boobs. I am nursing a now 3 year old and a 5 month old. And I am wanting to be done with the 3 year old. I have never weaned a child before - I have fully believed in child lead weaning. Until now. Until I had this child that screams and kicks and hits and begs and cries to nurse. I do not want to be cruel. I don't want to take something from him that he obviously feels that he needs. But I want to be done with it. And it's so hard because my boobs are always there because of the baby.

Have you ever weaned a toddler? What did you do? (If any of these ideas could help him magically sleep in his own bed, I would love that too!)

Friday, November 16, 2007

Women in my life

Heather has inspired me. Through the years I've often thought of different women and the effect they had on my life. They have been YW leaders, teachers, and neighbors. I haven't seen them in many years. I thought about sending a graduation announcement to my first grade teacher, but chickened out thinking she wouldn't remember me and I would be embarrassed. Etc. etc.

So. My friend google gave me three addresses. I wasn't able to find two that I looked for. I'm going to send cards to these three women. I'm not going to worry about a reply or (crap!) if it gets to the wrong person.

I grew up in California. My first grade teacher was so incredible. She found out that I was LDS and she was excited because she was too. Here in Utah it might be common but I can think of only 3 LDS teachers I ever had. She invited me home with her to swim in her apartment complex pool. She came to my house and watched The Wizard of Oz and ate popcorn with me. She got engaged and borrowed my dad's RX7 to show her fiance the new car she got (April Fool!) She got married and moved to Utah. All these years later I've ended up here as well. It would be interesting to see if we ever see each other again!

Another person I think of is a neighbor I had. I babysat for them and spent time in their house. I was probably in my early teens when I went there once and saw her breastfeeding a (gasp!) toddler. I was thinking - this kid can talk! She has teeth! What?! Truthfully I had no concept of baby feeding in general. I hadn't even begun to think about those things. It left me with no impression. Now that I'm Super Granola Mom (or something like that) I've thought back to other mothers that I've been around growing up. I can't remember birth or feeding ever really coming up. I wish I had known more about the women that surrounded me. This memory came back to me and now that I know better I think of this woman and her parenting and I understand that she was/is a great mother. I'm thankful for her not being shy about nursing her toddler in front of the neighbor kid.

The last person is a YW leader that I had. She was always kind. Always soft spoken. Always, always. I babysat for them quite a bit as well. I'm so impressed with her patience, her love for her kids, her attentiveness to them, and her optimism and kindness. She is one of those beautiful easy people to love.

There were a couple other YW leaders I had that I would love to send cards to also. I'm sure through other past ward members I can track them down so I'll be trying to do that. In the meantime - wish me luck!

Thursday, June 15, 2006

Breastfeeding ROCKS

Breastfeeding is awesome.

http://www.nytimes.com/2006/06/13/health/13brea.html

Breast-Feed or Else
By RONI RABIN
Warning: Public health officials have determined that not breast-
feeding may be hazardous to your baby's health.

There is no black-box label like that affixed to cans of infant
formula or tucked into the corner of magazine advertisements, at
least not yet. But that is the unambiguous message of a
controversial government public health campaign encouraging new
mothers to breast-feed for six months to protect their babies from
colds, flu, ear infections, diarrhea and even obesity. In April, the
World Health Organization, setting new international bench marks for
children's growth, for the first time referred to breast-feeding as
the biological norm.

"Just like it's risky to smoke during pregnancy, it's risky not to
breast-feed after," said Suzanne Haynes, senior scientific adviser
to the Office on Women's Health in the Department of Health and
Human Services. "The whole notion of talking about risk is new in
this field, but it's the only field of public health, except perhaps
physical activity, where there is never talk about the risk."

A two-year national breast-feeding awareness campaign that
culminated this spring ran television announcements showing a
pregnant woman clutching her belly as she was thrown off a
mechanical bull during ladies' night at a bar — and compared the
behavior to failing to breast-feed.

"You wouldn't take risks before your baby's born," the advertisement
says. "Why start after?"

Senator Tom Harkin, Democrat of Iowa, has proposed requiring warning
labels, on cans of infant formula and in advertisements, similar to
the those on cigarettes. They would say that the Department of
Health and Human services has determined that "breast-feeding is the
ideal method of feeding and nurturing infants" or that "breast milk
is more beneficial to infants than infant formula."

Child-rearing experts have long pointed to the benefits of breast-
feeding. But critics say the new campaign has taken things too far
and will make mothers who cannot breast-feed, or choose not to, feel
guilty and inadequate.

"I desperately wanted to breast-feed," said Karen Petrone, an
associate professor of history at University of Kentucky in
Lexington.

When her two babies failed to gain weight and her pediatrician
insisted that she supplement her breast milk with formula, Ms.
Petrone said, "I felt so guilty."

"I thought I was doing something wrong," she added. "Nobody ever
told me that some women just can't produce enough milk."

Moreover, urging women to breast-feed exclusively is a tall order in
a country where more than 60 percent of mothers of very young
children work, federal law requires large companies to provide only
12 weeks' unpaid maternity leave and lactation leave is unheard of.
Only a third of large companies provide a private, secure area where
women can express breast milk during the workday, and only 7 percent
offer on-site or near-site child care, according to a 2005 national
study of employers by the nonprofit Families and Work Institute.

"I'm concerned about the guilt that mothers will feel," said Ellen
Galinsky, president of the center. "It's hard enough going back to
work."

Public health leaders say the weight of the scientific evidence for
breast-feeding has grown so overwhelming that it is appropriate to
recast their message to make clear that it is risky not to breast-
feed.

Ample scientific evidence supports the contention that breast-fed
babies are less vulnerable to acute infectious diseases, including
respiratory and gastrointestinal infections, experts say. Some
studies also suggest that breast-fed babies are at lower risk for
sudden infant death syndrome and serious chronic diseases later in
life, including asthma, diabetes, leukemia and some forms of
lymphoma, according to the American Academy of Pediatrics.

Research on premature babies has even found that those given breast
milk scored higher on I.Q. tests than those who were bottle-fed.

The goal of a government health initiative called Healthy People
2010 is to get half of all mothers to continue at least some breast-
feeding until a baby is 6 months old. Though about 70 percent of new
mothers start breast-feeding right after childbirth, just over a
third are breast-feeding at 6 months and fewer than 20 percent are
exclusively breast-feeding by that time, according to the 2004
National Immunization Survey. Breast-feeding increases with
education, income and age; black women are less likely to breast-
feed, while Hispanics have higher breast-feeding rates.

For women, breast-feeding can be an emotionally charged issue, and a
very personal one. Even its most ardent supporters acknowledge that
they have made sacrifices.

"It's a whole lifestyle," said Kymberlie Stefanski, a 34-year-old
mother of three from Villa Park, Ill., who has not been apart from
her children except for one night when she gave birth. "My life
revolves around my kids, basically." Ms. Stefanski quit working when
her first child was born almost six years ago, nursed that child
until she was 4 years old, and is nursing an infant now.

She said she wanted to reduce the risk of breast cancer for herself
and for her three daughters, referring to research indicating that
extended breast-feeding may reduce the risk for both mother and
daughters.

Scientists who study breast milk almost all speak of it in
superlatives. Even the International Formula Council, a trade
association, acknowledges that breast-feeding "offers specific child
and maternal health benefits" and is the "preferred" method of
infant feeding. The American Academy of Pediatrics states in its
breast-feeding policy that human breast milk is "uniquely superior
for infant feeding."

Dr. Haynes, of the Health and Human Services Department, said, "Our
message is that breast milk is the gold standard, and anything less
than that is inferior."

Formula "is not equivalent," she went on, adding, "Formula is not
the gold standard. It's so far from it, it's not even close."

Formula manufacturers say infant formula is modeled on breast milk
and emphasize that it is the only safe alternative recommended by
pediatricians for mothers who cannot, or choose not to, breast-feed.

But while formula tastes the same way at every feeding, advocates of
breast-feeding say, the smells and flavors of human breast milk
change from day to day, from morning to evening, influenced by the
mother's diet. Many nutritionists believe that exposing an infant to
this bouquet of flavors early on may make for less fussy eaters who
are more flexible about trying new foods and more likely to eat a
healthy, varied diet.

"I think of human milk not just as food, but as a sophisticated and
intricate infant support system that has evolved over millions of
years to provide the infant with nutrition, protection and
components of information," said Dr. E. Stephen Buescher, a
professor of pediatrics at Eastern Virginia Medical School in
Norfolk, who heads the inflammation section in the school's Center
for Pediatric Research.

"It isn't just calories," Dr. Buescher said.

The protection that breast-feeding provides against acute infectious
diseases — including meningitis, upper and lower respiratory
infections, pneumonia, bowel infections, diarrhea and ear
infections — has been among the most extensively studied of its
benefits and is well documented, said Dr. Lawrence M. Gartner,
chairman of the American Academy of Pediatrics' breast-feeding
section.

Breast-fed babies have 50 percent to 95 percent fewer infections
than other babies, Dr. Gartner said, adding, "It's pretty dramatic."

One reason for the reduction in the incidence and the severity of
infections is the antibodies contained in the mother's milk. "A lot
of this has to do with the mother and baby interacting," he
explained. "Whatever the baby is exposed to, the mother is exposed
to, and the mother will make antibodies within three to four days."
The baby absorbs them through breast milk.

Breast milk also protects the baby through other mechanisms. For
example, it contains agents that prevent bacteria and viruses from
attaching to cells in the baby's body, so the foreign agents are
expelled in the stool, Dr. Gartner said.

The protection is not ironclad, so breast-fed babies will often get
a mild infection that does not make the baby sick but acts almost
like a vaccine. "What we think is that human milk creates an
environment where you get your immunity without the cost of an
infection, the vomiting and the diarrhea," Dr. Buescher
said. "That's a bargain."

Neonatologists are urging the mothers of their tiniest patients to
express breast milk because premature and low-birth-weight babies
are particularly vulnerable to infections. Studies have found that
premature babies who get breast milk are discharged earlier from the
hospital and are less likely to develop necrotizing enterocolitis, a
potentially deadly disease.

Breast milk has also been shown to lift the cognitive development of
premature babies, presumably because it contains certain fatty acids
that aid brain development.

Experts say it is possible that human breast milk produces permanent
changes in the immune system, in a sense "educating" the baby's
immune system, Dr. Gartner suggested. That may explain why children
who were breast-fed appear to be at lower risk for autoimmune
diseases like Crohn's, asthma and juvenile diabetes. Several studies
also indicate that breast-fed children are at reduced risk for the
cancers lymphoma and leukemia.

Officials with the International Formula Council say there is not
enough evidence to prove a relationship between early feeding and
serious chronic diseases.

Dr. Myron Peterson, director of medical affairs for Cato Research, a
private independent research organization which reviewed the
literature on breast-feeding for the council, said that studies have
found a link between nursing and health benefits but that they do
not prove a causal relationship. "It's like the old statement about
the rooster crowing making the sun come up," he said. "If you did an
observational study on that, what would you say?"

An unpublished report the council commissioned from Cato says "it is
not scientifically correct to conclude the lack of exclusive breast-
feeding plays a causative role in the development of these diseases."

But scientists are so intrigued about the potential to protect
children from juvenile diabetes that a large 10-year multinational
study called Trigr (for Trial to Reduce Insulin-dependent diabetes
mellitus in the Genetically at Risk) is under way to find out
whether breast-feeding protects at-risk children from developing the
disease.

And public health officials, excited about mounting evidence
suggesting that children who were breast-fed are at lower risk of
being obese, have been promoting breast-feeding as a strategy to
combat alarming rates of childhood obesity.

The health benefits of breast-feeding may extend to mothers as well.
According to the American College of Obstetricians and
Gynecologists, extended breast-feeding reduces the risk of ovarian
cancer and breast cancer. New studies have also found that women who
breast-feed face a lower risk of adult-onset or Type 2 diabetes, and
they seem to be at lower risk for osteoporosis later in life.

Immediately after childbirth, nursing accelerates healing by
reducing the amount of bleeding and causing the uterus to contract
more rapidly back to its normal size. Making milk burns up to 500
extra calories a day, so nursing mothers get help shedding extra
pounds from pregnancy, experts say, especially if they nurse for an
extended period.

Experts say lactation also seems to have a calming effect on the
mother, which may be an adaptive mechanism to ease the transition to
life with a new baby. Every time a mother nurses, she gets a spike
in oxytocin, which may have an antianxiety effect and help promote
bonding with the new baby, said Kathryn G. Dewey, a professor of
nutrition at the University of California, Davis, and an expert on
breast-feeding.

Nursing may even produce a euphoric feeling, she said.

Dr. Michael Kramer, a professor of pediatrics and of epidemiology
and biostatistics at McGill University's medical school in Montreal
who has been studying the health effects of breast-feeding among
infants in Belarus, found a strong protective effect against
gastrointestinal illnesses and a lesser protective effect against
respiratory infections. Dr. Kramer is still analyzing data on
obesity, I.Q., behavior and blood pressure.

"It can't do all of the things that are being claimed for it," Dr.
Kramer said, injecting a note of caution into the debate. "But it
probably does some of them."

Friday, March 31, 2006

Are Doctors Performing Too Many Cesareans?

Article featured in this week's Newsweek. I don't think we even need to speculate - are doctors performing too many cesareans? Good grief yes! What this country needs is more midwives, more out of hospital births, and far far fewer interventions.

Special Deliveries
Are Doctors performing too many C-sections?

A decade ago, cesarean section births were often a last resort, performed during medical emergencies or after hours of unsuccessful labor. But in recent years, C-sections, in which a baby is extracted through incisions in the mother's abdominal wall and uterus, have increasingly become a matter of choice, not necessity. Between 1996 and 2004, the rate of C-sections doubled to nearly 30% of all U.S. births - the highest figure ever reported. This despite a CDC goal, announced in 2000, to lower the rate to 14% among first-time mothers by the year 2010. Though fewer than one in 10 C-sections are estimated to be elective, the overall trend has alarmed many in the field. "It would be fine if there was no risk associated with it," says Dr. Duane Alexander, director of the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development. "But there is."

How much risk is a matter of debate, one that has roiled the world of obstetrics as the number of C-sections has climbed. This week the National Institutes of Health will host a major conference to examine why more women are having C-section births, and if they're putting themselves or their babies in unnecessary danger. [*Do they need to have a conference to figure this out?!*]

Experts worry hat some women are opting for C-sections out of convenience - deliveries can be scheduled months in advance - or to avoid labor pains. [*I would so much rather bust a baby out of my vagina in a few hours than be cut open and healing for weeks. I don't understand that argument at all!*] Deanne R. Williams, executive director of the American College of Nurse-Midwives, says malpractice fears may also explain some of the increase. Doctors are more likely to nix vaginal births now if the baby is in the breech position, or if the mother has had a previous C-section (which increases the chance of her uterus's rupturing during vaginal delivery, a rare but very dangerous occurrence) to avoid being sued for complications. "It's not an unrealistic fear, "says Williams. "But major abdominal surgery is no small matter."

C-section risks include bleeding and infection. And studies show that the more C-sections a woman has, the higher her chance of hemorrhaging during delivery or needing a hysterectomy after the birth. Serious complications are rare, however, and usually occur during emergency, not elective, C-sections, says Dr. Gary Hankins, chair of the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists' Committee on Obstetric Practice.

Vaginal childbirth isn't risk-free, either. Many women experience tears or lacerations. Pelvic damage, which can cause incontinence or sexual difficulties, is much less common - and usually temporary. But after a 1996 British study found incontinence was greater among women who had chosen vaginal births, obstetricians say more women began requesting C-sections. More-recent research has contradicted the earlier findings. "There are a lot of myths out there we hope to replace with strong scientific evidence," says Alexander, a presenter at the NIH conference. That's just what women, and obstetricians, want to hear.